1. Name calling and put-downs
2. Extreme jealousy
3. Making excuses for the other partner
4. Canceling or changing plans often
5. Monitoring the other partner’s behavior and actions
6. Uncontrolled anger or mood swings
7. Isolation
8. Dramatic changes in appearance and/or behavior
9. Unexplained injuries
10. Quick progression of the relationship
11. Alcohol or drug abuse
12. Rigid ideas about gender roles
13. Overly interested in pornography or pushy about sex
14. History of abuse in previous relationships
15. Abusive or overly critical parents
16. Disrespectful or demeaning towards all women or all men
17. Easily angered by seemingly innocent things
